The urge hits fast. A thought.A feeling.A spike in stress. And suddenly, everything in you says: “Just do it.” Drink.Bet.Use.Escape. Most men believe the urge means action is inevitable. It’s not. An urge is not a command. It’s a wave. And waves pass. WHAT IS URGE SURFING? Urge surfing is a technique that helps you […]
Category Archives: Wellness
Addiction, health and wellness, Mental Health, sobriety, Wellness
Burnout vs. Addiction: Knowing the Difference
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Apr
Apr
“I’m just burned out.” That’s what a lot of men say. Long hours.High pressure.Constant demand. And yes, burnout is real. But sometimes what looks like burnout… is addiction. And confusing the two delays real help. WHAT BURNOUT ACTUALLY IS Burnout is the result of chronic stress without adequate recovery. It often shows up as: • […]
12-Step Programs, alcoholism, Mental Health, Pornography, Relationships, Sex Addiction, Thoughts, Wellness
Professionalism vs. Denial: “I Still Have My Job, So I’m Fine”
06
Apr
Apr
He’s still showing up to work. Still leading meetings.Still closing deals.Still performing. From the outside, everything looks intact. Which leads to the most dangerous sentence in addiction: “I’m fine. I still have my job.” FUNCTIONAL DOES NOT MEAN HEALTHY Many men in addiction are high-functioning. They maintain: • Careers• Income• Responsibilities• External credibility But functionality […]
alcoholism, Gambling Addiction, health and wellness, Mental Health, Recovery, Wellness
Traumatic Brain Injury and Addiction: The Overlooked Connection in Men
08
Mar
Mar
Sometimes the addiction didn’t start with a drink. It started with a hit. A football collision.A car accident.A fall.A concussion that “wasn’t a big deal.” Then something shifted. Impulse control weakened.Mood changed.Risk tolerance increased.Substances followed. Traumatic Brain Injury, or TBI, is one of the most overlooked contributors to addiction in men. WHAT IS A TRAUMATIC […]
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Aug
Aug
Work plays an important part in your lives, not only for the economic resources and benefits, but because work is an essential part of a person’s identity, self-esteem, and self-worth. The more you excel at work, the more you may feel satisfied and self-assured. However, a work-life imbalance leaves you vulnerable to family conflicts, burnout, […]
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Aug
Aug
In the course of your daily life, it is normal to experience one or more demands that place mental, physical, and emotional pressure on you. Stress is how the brain responds to danger, obstacles, or demands, and the circumstances that lead to stress are many and varied. Stress is common and impacts each person differently. […]
Addiction, Body Awareness, Wellness
Chemical Dependency: What Is It and How Is It Different From Addiction?
25
Aug
Aug
The terms addiction and chemical dependency are often used interchangeably, but there is a significant difference between the two. Addiction is classified as a chronic illness that, although treatable, can result in compulsive behaviors. However, chemical dependency is when the body needs a substance to prevent symptoms of withdrawal. What Causes Chemical Dependency? Chemical dependency […]
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Aug
Aug
The Recovery Elevator Paul Churchill’s podcast, The Recovery Elevator, is his unique way of holding himself accountable during his journey to recovery. Paul, an ex-closeted alcoholic, chronicles his recovery to help himself just as much as others. The show features guests that share their experiences and give listeners tips on how to overcome addiction. The […]
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Aug
Aug
Let’s face it, technology is probably a major part of your everyday life. You probably use one or more social media platforms, the most popular being Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and Tik Tok. There are many benefits to using social media, but it can be harmful, especially during the recovery process. No matter where you are […]
08
Aug
Aug
Synergism is the term for when two drugs are taken together and produce a multiplying effect. This concept is widely associated with mixing alcohol and another substance. The synergistic interaction between alcohol and other drugs contributes to the lethal potential of drug-taking behavior. What Is Synergism? Synergism is similar to potentiation. This means that if […]