When your husband is struggling with addiction, boundaries can feel confusing, scary, and emotionally loaded. Many wives know they need boundaries, but they do not know what boundaries are supposed to sound like, how to communicate them without escalating conflict, or how to follow through without feeling cruel or abandoning. Boundaries are not punishments.They are […]
Category Archives: Family
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Jan
Jan
When a loved one is struggling with addiction, many spouses reach a breaking point. They feel exhausted, scared, angry, and desperate for change. In that moment, ultimatums often feel like the only option left.“Get help or I’m done.”“Change or I’m leaving.”“This is your last chance.” While ultimatums can come from deep pain and fear, they […]
Addiction, Family, Gambling Addiction, Mental Health, Recovery, Relationships, Sex Addiction
A New Year of Recovery: How Men Can Build a Sustainable Plan for Change
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Dec
Dec
A new year recovery plan for men begins with structure, honesty, and support, not resolutions. January often feels like a clean slate for men struggling with process addictions such as sex addiction, pornography addiction, or gambling addiction. Many attempt to reset with goals or promises, only to find themselves repeating the same patterns weeks later. […]
Addiction, Family, Mental Health, Pornography, Recovery, Relationships, Sex Addiction, sobriety
Healing From Betrayal Trauma During the Holidays: A Guide for Spouses
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Dec
Dec
The holidays are supposed to feel warm, connected, and joyful. But for spouses who have experienced betrayal trauma due to sex addiction, pornography addiction, or gambling addiction, the season often brings the opposite. The pressure to “hold things together,” show up at gatherings, maintain traditions, or pretend everything is fine can feel unbearable. Instead of […]
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Aug
Aug
Divorce is a painful process, and unfortunately, children often experience the impact of divorce long after it is over. It is common for children to exhibit frequent, intense emotional outbursts or sudden shifts in their mood and mannerisms during a separation or divorce. As a parent, you might feel frustrated when your child exhibits a […]
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Jun
Jun
The first day of summer is Sunday, June 20th. As more and more Americans get vaccinated, travel restrictions are being lifted. This presents the perfect opportunity to travel after so many months of social distancing. Not only is taking a break from work crucial for avoiding burnout, but also for incorporating adventure and new experiences. […]
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Jun
Jun
On Sunday, June 20, we will be celebrating dads everywhere. Father’s Day is the perfect opportunity to show gratitude to the men raising children in your life. If you are a man raising a child, pat yourself on the back. You are doing the best you can with the tools you have at your disposal. […]
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Feb
Feb
Addiction of any kind and the recovery process affects family dynamics in multiple ways. People assume different roles throughout the process and grapple with the addiction on an individual basis. The best route is not always separation as that can leave the individual suffering from substance abuse without the resources to recover and at risk […]
Addiction, Blog, Family, Recovery
Singer Melissa Etheridge’s Foundation Honors Her Son Who Lost His Battle With Opioid Addiction
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Dec
Dec
For three decades, singer Melissa Etheridge made news for her powerful songs, multiple Grammy nominations, and influence on the world of rock music. Her albums and singles have sold millions of copies, and tickets to the Kansas singer’s concerts sell fast. This past May, Etheridge’s name made news when her son Beckett died of an […]
There may come a time when a loved one comes down with a severe medical ailment that makes you spin out of control with fear. You may start pondering how you will live without your loved one. How can you accept them with all the changes that will come about? Will they still know you? […]
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