Every conversation ends the same way. You bring up the gambling. He talks about stress. You mention the drinking. He talks about pressure. You express concern. He explains how hard his life has been. Somewhere along the way, the focus shifts. You end up comforting him. This pattern is common in addiction. It often feels […]
Tag Archives: Victim Mentality
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People who are addicted to drugs and alcohol have been described as “childish, emotionally sensitive, and grandiose” because of fear. When you feel backed into a corner by others, you may find you want to retaliate either by lashing out, taking things way too personal, or a combination of both. The question is: Do you […]