Tag Archives: Addiction Treatment

Identity Reconstruction: Who Are You Without the Drink?

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For many men, alcohol is not just something they use.It becomes part of who they are. The drinker.The fun one.The stress-reliever.The guy who can hold it together no matter what. When a man considers stopping or changing his relationship with alcohol, the fear is often not just about cravings. It is about identity.If I am […]

The Difference Between “Problem Drinking” and Addiction

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Many men enter January wondering the same thing:“Do I really have a problem, or did things just get out of hand?” The language we use around drinking matters. Terms like problem drinking, heavy use, or stress drinking often feel safer than the word addiction. They create space to minimize, rationalize, or delay change. But for […]

A New Year of Recovery: How Men Can Build a Sustainable Plan for Change

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A new year recovery plan for men begins with structure, honesty, and support, not resolutions. January often feels like a clean slate for men struggling with process addictions such as sex addiction, pornography addiction, or gambling addiction. Many attempt to reset with goals or promises, only to find themselves repeating the same patterns weeks later. […]

The Holiday Relapse Trap: Why Stress and Isolation Trigger Addictive Behaviors in Men

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Holiday relapse prevention for men becomes critical during a season filled with stress, isolation, and emotional pressure. While the holidays are often marketed as a time of connection and joy, many men in recovery from sex addiction, pornography addiction, or gambling addiction experience the opposite. Increased stress, disrupted routines, financial strain, and emotional disconnection can […]

Why Men Struggle to Ask for Help: Barriers to Treatment for Process Addictions

Most men are not taught how to ask for help. They are taught how to perform, endure, and keep moving. They hide their fear. They white knuckle their pain. They solve problems on their own. These expectations place enormous pressure on men who are quietly spiraling in sex addiction, gambling addiction, or other process addictions. […]

Tips for Participating in Group Therapy

Group therapy can help you heal collectively. By sharing your experiences with others who may have had similar situations or coping mechanisms, you can not only grow together but also learn a lot about yourself in the process. Overall, group therapy should be a time for creating connections and fostering community. Avoid Projection One of […]

Get in the Right Headspace to Tell Your Kids You’re Seeking Treatment

You have made the decision to seek treatment for your addiction, but you still need to have that conversation with your children on why you are leaving home for a while. If your kids are unaware of your condition, this can be a difficult topic to broach. Even if they are aware, it is a […]

Do You Have a Process Addiction?

A process addiction is when a favorite pastime becomes problematic. Instead of indulging periodically in moderation with your favorite things, they become excessive and destructive. Some examples of process addictions include eating, exercise, gambling, sex, video gaming, shopping, and pornography. Each of these behaviors may supplement your lifestyle and bring joy, but when we engage […]

How to Collaborate with Your Medication Prescriber

Do you find it hard to be honest with your medication prescriber? Are you sometimes missing doses either unintentionally or intentionally? Do you wish you had better communication about your health with your healthcare providers? To break down the barriers that often exist between patient and provider, we suggest you take the initiative early on […]

5 Tenants of Recovery from Alcoholism and Addiction

Millions of people who struggle with alcoholism or addiction want recovery but do not fully understand the concept. They often imagine that recovery includes white-knuckling through urges to drink or use drugs again, while still staying the same person they were when their troubles began. A full recovery program should address multiple areas of an […]