Addiction & The High Achiever — Valiant Living

Professionals Program for Men · Continuing Education

Addiction & The High Achiever

A conversation on identity, shame, and the path forward.


High performers carry a particular kind of weight — the success that looks like proof of strength on the outside often hides a private struggle with addiction underneath. In this eight-part conversation, Dr. Stephanie Emde unpacks why addiction is so prevalent among high achievers, how identity and shame keep men from seeking help, and what real next steps look like.

Who This Is For

Different fields. Same weight.

Built for men whose success on the outside often hides what’s happening underneath — executives, founders, athletes, and high performers in every arena.

Silhouette of an executive against a city skyline.

The Boardroom

He carries the company.

A climber rappelling down a cliff face above a mountain range.

The Climb

He climbs alone.

A football player in dramatic light, ready to compete.

The Field

He has no room to fall.

The Conversation

Watch at your own pace.

Eight short videos — each one a single question, in plain language. Watch in order, or jump to whichever question you need most today.

01 Question One

Why is addiction so prevalent with high achievers?

02 Question Two

How does the sense of identity impact high performers?

03 Question Three

How does shame and the stigma around sexual addiction keep high achievers from addressing problematic behaviors?

04 Question Four

How has technology changed process addiction behaviors?

05 Question Five

Is sex addiction a disease?

06 Question Six

After screening, what are the next steps you can take?

07 Question Seven

What is the criteria for diagnosing sex addiction?

08 Question Eight

What is a good next step for someone who wants to learn or engage more with this subject?

If you or someone you love is struggling

You don’t have to walk this road alone.

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