Feeling spiritually lost can happen to anyone, especially after addiction, trauma, or a major life disruption. When your connection with God feels distant or unclear, it can leave you questioning everything. This guide and podcast episode explore how to reconnect with God in a way that is honest, grounded, and sustainable.
What happens when faith falls apart in ways sobriety alone cannot fix?
In this episode, a former pastor who found himself disqualified and starting over sits down with Anglican priest and author Father Chad Jarnigan for an honest conversation about losing and rediscovering faith.
This is not a polished, theological discussion. It is a grounded, real exploration of what it looks like when your relationship with God no longer works the way it used to.
Together, they unpack spiritual deconstruction and reconstruction in plain language, especially for those in recovery who feel ashamed, numb, or unsure what they believe anymore. They explore how shame-based religion can distort both your view of God and your view of yourself, and why honesty matters more than certainty when you are trying to rebuild.
The conversation also touches on the healing role of confession, the difference between a faith crisis and a necessary clearing, and why belonging often comes before believing when someone is starting over.
You will also hear practical ways to begin reconnecting, including contemplative practices like silence, breath, gratitude, and simply learning to notice again. Instead of pressure or performance, this episode points toward a slower, more grounded spirituality built on real experience.
For anyone who has ever asked, “Where was God in my suffering?”, this conversation holds that question with care and without easy answers.
If you feel spiritually lost, you are not alone. And you are not out of options.
If you or someone you love is struggling with addiction, you don’t have to face it alone.
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