Episode Summary

Everyone carries internal narratives that shape how we see ourselves, others, and the world. These stories—often formed in childhood and reinforced through years of living—can either liberate us or keep us trapped in cycles of shame, fear, and self-doubt.

In this powerful conversation, Michael Dinneen and Drew Powell dig deep into how these narratives influence our recovery journeys. Dinneen vulnerably shares his ongoing struggle with a “younger son” identity despite 33 years of sobriety and significant professional success. “How much hustle I’ve gone into in my own life,” he reflects, “has been this overcompensation for this kid that thinks he’s unworthy and just messed up.”

The discussion takes a transformative turn when they explore the parable of the Prodigal Son from a fresh perspective. In Western culture, we focus on the wayward son, but Eastern traditions call it “The Parable of the Running Father”—shifting attention to the parent who desperately loves rather than the child who strayed. This reframing offers a powerful metaphor for recovery: perhaps our healing comes not from fixing ourselves but from allowing ourselves to be seen differently.

Both men examine how our protective mechanisms—whether withdrawing completely or charging forward with excessive intensity—often represent polarized reactions to fear rather than expressions of our authentic selves. “Neither of those are really the essence of me,” Dinneen observes about his tendency toward either isolation or aggression, “but I think they are me.”

The conversation reveals that true transformation requires courage to question everything—our perceptions, reactions, and deeply held beliefs about who we are. The journey isn’t about arriving at a destination where struggle ceases but developing a different relationship with our internal experience. As Dinneen powerfully concludes: “The alternative is you just keep reinventing a more savvy way to outmaneuver yourself…and it only lands you temporarily in the sweet spot.”

Whether you’re in recovery or simply seeking a more authentic life, this episode offers profound insights into breaking free from limiting narratives and discovering who you truly are beyond the stories you’ve been telling yourself.